what to write on funeral flowers
Understanding the Funeral Process in the UK
Sending flowers to a funeral is a traditional and heartfelt way to express sympathy and support for grieving families. However, knowing what to write on the accompanying card can be challenging. At Gaunts of Wollaston, we understand the importance of conveying the right message during such sensitive times. This guide will help you find the appropriate words to write on funeral flowers.
Choosing the Right Message
When writing a message for funeral flowers, consider the relationship you had with the deceased and the family. Your message should reflect your feelings and offer comfort to those who are mourning.
General Tips for Writing Funeral Messages
- Keep It Simple: A brief, heartfelt message can often convey your sentiments more effectively than long, elaborate words.
- Be Sincere: Write from the heart. Genuine expressions of sympathy and support mean a lot to grieving families.
- Offer Condolences: Express your sympathy and let the family know that you are thinking of them during this difficult time.

Sample Messages for Funeral Flowers
For Family Members
- "In loving memory of a wonderful [mother, father, etc.]. You will be forever in our hearts."
- "To my beloved [grandmother, grandfather, etc.], you will be deeply missed."
- "Thank you for the love and memories, dear [sibling, cousin, etc.]. Rest in peace."
For Close Friends
- "Farewell, dear friend. Your memory will live on in our hearts."
- "In loving memory of a cherished friend. We will miss you greatly."
- "You brought joy to our lives and will be remembered with love."
For Acquaintances or Colleagues
- "With deepest sympathy on your loss. Our thoughts are with you."
- "In memory of a respected colleague and friend. You will be missed."
- "Heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this time of sorrow."
Religious Messages
- "May you rest in peace in the arms of the Lord."
- "With prayers for comfort and peace during this difficult time."
- "In God's care you rest above, in our hearts you rest with love."
Messages for Specific Circumstances
- Sudden or Unexpected Death: "Gone too soon, but never forgotten. Our hearts are with you."
- Long Illness: "Your strength and courage were an inspiration to us all. Rest in peace."
- For Children: "In loving memory of a precious angel. Forever in our hearts."
Adding a Personal Touch
If you knew the deceased well, adding a personal touch can make your message even more meaningful. Consider including a fond memory, a shared experience, or a unique quality that you admired about them.
Example:
- "Your laughter and kindness will never be forgotten. Thank you for the beautiful memories."
Signing Off
End your message with a simple closing, such as:
- "With love,"
- "In sympathy,"
- "With heartfelt condolences,"
- "Thinking of you,"
Writing a message for funeral flowers can be daunting, but a sincere and heartfelt note can provide much-needed comfort to grieving families. At Gaunts of Wollaston, we are here to support you through every step of the funeral planning process. If you need further assistance or have any questions, please don't hesitate to contact us. Your compassion and thoughtfulness will be deeply appreciated by those who are mourning their loss.